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    "Never, ever underestimate the importance of having fun." ~Randy Pausch

  • Sexuality & Relationships Discussions

    I write about sexuality on Medium, and I also share my private sex life as part of these discussions, which led to my first sex confessions book.

     

    Below are the sex toys I referred to in Medium posts, grouped by the topic covered in each post.

     

    DISCLAIMER: I am not a doctor or a sex therapist, and I do not provide medical, health, or sex advice. Always consult a professional for medical, health, or sex advice. What I experience and feel may be unhealthy for you  - or even for me, perhaps. I don't know! Life is a work in progress!

     

    NOTE: There are Amazon affiliate links below. It costs you nothing but helps pay for my coffee and sex toys! Thank you!

  • Topic: The Role of Pain in Sex vs. Clit Torture

  • Nipple (Clit) Clamps

    The nipple clamps we used on my clitoris by simply removing the chain. We tried a version with 5 screws, but my clit is not big enough to make room for 5 screws around it.

     

    See more of it on Amazon.

  • The Dildo Ball Gag!

    As mentioned on Medium, it is hard to forget the role of my mouth in pleasuring penises when the ball gag is actually a dildo reaching the back of my throat!

     

    See more of it on Amazon.

  • A Breathable Ball Gag

    This is the ball gag that the guys were using on me before we found the 5-inch penis dildo ball gag.

     

    See more of it on Amazon.

  • A Regular Pinwheel

    The first pinwheel we tried, but the guys had difficulties rolling it over the tip of my clit. So we tried the one below.

     

    See more of it on Amazon.

  • A 7-Head Pinwheel

    The 7-head pinwheel ensures the guys always hit the tip of my clitoris. And they prefer the black handle!

     

    See more of it on Amazon.

  • A Repurposed Spreader Bar

    It seems the nude body of a young blonde can inspire the men playing with it! They use this bar but not as intended. They have my wrists at each end of the long bar that they put behind my neck. Then the collar is directly attached to the middle of the bar.

     

    See more of it on Amazon.

  • So, What Do You Think?

    Would you use any of these BDSM & submissive sex toys? As a male or female?
     

    Let me know, please! Life is a work in progress, and I am curious. Let's talk!

    If you prefer, we can chat about it.

  • Warning

    Delisha's sex confessions look back at accounts of rough sexual encounters, all of which were voluntary, among adults, with consent from all participants who had a safe word. However, they may be triggering to some people.

     

    Sexual assault is something totally different and never acceptable.

     

    If you were a victim of sexual assault, you may contact:

    • In the USA: RAINN.org at 1-800-656-HOPE
    • In Canada: EndingViolenceCanada.org
    • Elsewhere: Please do an online search. Do not wait!

    Please contact a law enforcement agency if you are aware of real-life sex slaves, any kind of violence against others, or human trafficking.

    Notice

    There are affiliate links on this website. It costs you nothing. It simply means that when you follow the link and purchase the item, Delisha may receive a few pennies to help pay for coffee and sex toys, so she can keep on experimenting and writing about it! Many thanks & hugs!

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